I too have avoided this thread like the plague. I can't say I have a denial issue as I know I am fat (hate that word 'obese') but I have lost weight so many times in my life and as soon as I go off a diet (therein lies a clue) have ended up fatter than when I started. My doctor said I must be on a good maintenance plan as I have been this weight for years - I don't think she was joking with me though! All my best wishes and congratulations go to those who achieve this very difficult task! Lee