Hi Liz, and welcome to LCT!
I am very interested in your experience; this thread has also been very interesting.
I can't imagine lugging water/soda around along with everything else I carry, though. Oceania had better re-think that situation. Jan, maybe you could have a chat with your friend Frank about it. And to refuse to empty a refrigerator simply turns it into one of those tacky mini-bar things like some hotels (and mass-market cruiselines) have.