Marc and Arlene, so happy for you. As a recently returning ex pat, the experience will be life changing.

I looked into an ex pat position in Tokyo this year, but decided against it as I didn't want to leave Doug again so soon after returning for 2 years. You will be well compensated and the cost differential will be made up for you. I will be glad to give you some tips about moving, taxes, etc., if you privately email me.

There is an ex pat community for Arlene, so she will be fine.

What will you be doing there? Do tell all.