You should ask your vet first, but if it is ok, then you can crush a pilll and stir the powder into a small serving of something that you know she likes to eat, or if it is a capsule then empty it. If that won't work for some reason, then less pleasant, but ask your vet for a "piller." It looks a little like a plastic shot syringe, but it has rubber tips that hold an intact pill while you hold open the dog's mouth and push it all the way to the back of the throat, then press the plunger and eject the pill. Of course, this second option is a last resort because it seems so forceful and unpleasant, but it does not really hurt dogs. Good luck to you and all your family members, we know what you're going through.