They are getting married at the Sarco Creek Estate, which is near Silverado. I've looked at Silverado so might make a reservation there, although a cute B&B would be better. I've looked at some via tripadvisor.com.
Personally I would love to stay at Meadowood but there is no chance any other members of the family could stay there, plus we will be busy with wedding activities and probably not able to take full advantage of where we stay.
