All I can assure you is that all of us, Karen, John and I will be so fast to delete any personal NEGATIVE message or any message that may even encourage a negative thread, even if innocently posted. We will always email and tell a person WHY we deleted.

Even if that message is from one of the many posters that we know and love here including myself. I told Karen if I say something I shouldnt she can instantly "delete my post"

Besides we have no rules except "be nice" here so you can ask anyone you want about anything you want.